A visit to a Micasa store in the Zurich area last Saturday got me thinking: a younger colleague needed some furniture for her new apartment - and some information at the store's information desk. An older gentleman helped us and couldn't resist complimenting the younger lady on how pretty she was. Then he asked if we were mother and daughter .... Firstly, it was none of his business, secondly, he didn't need to grin so suggestively and thirdly ... no one in their right mind who wasn't looking for a joke would have asked that question!
It would all have been bearable .... His young colleague then led us to the pick-up point and told us on the way that we shouldn't take it tragically - after all, her older colleague would call her "pug" or "Möpsli".
Does the older gentleman even realize what he is doing to his younger colleague? Does he think about how it makes her feel? Probably not .... It's also obvious that she won't put up a fight - after all, he's around 60, she's perhaps 25. He may have been there for 40 years and be well established, while she may have only recently joined and have no lobby.
It could also be that I'm worrying too much and unnecessarily - maybe she thinks it's okay and even funny ... I don't know.